This is a very personal post for me. As It’s an open letter to Those Who Sexually Abused Me (and My Husband)—And For Every “Christian Grey” Out There Who Was Abused You might not remember me. Or maybe you do. I was the skinny little girl with dark hair and freckles. ​​ I didn’t understand what you were doing. That you were hurting my body, and wounding my spirit, my heart, and my mind. What you did flipped a switch inside me, making me sexually aware. Making me feel inferior