YOUR MARRIAGE resources
BREAK the CONFLICT CYCLE: Turn Every Struggle into a Winning Strategy
(Online course or DVD seminar)
Would you like to end the conflict in your marriage? Never again have that
disagreement—you know the one—or at least know what to do about that conflict?
Would you like to learn how to enjoy and preserve companionship and intimacy
despite conflict? In the BREAK the CONFLICT CYCLE: Turn Every Struggle into a
Winning Strategy seminar, you will learn:
- What brings conflict
- What’s really happening when conflict comes
- Why conflict can actually benefit your marriage
- How to use conflict to benefit your marriage
- What to do when a particular conflict reoccur
- How to replace conflict with new habits
Your marriage doesn’t have to be dominated or blind-sided by conflict. Break the Conflict Cycle and experience a closer marriage than ever before.
"Your (Shellie's) explanation of where conflict comes from makes perfect sense in light of scripture. Recently, this new perspective helped me avoid a conflict with my wife. I'm pretty happy about that." -- J.C.
BUILD LASTING INTIMACY: The Levels of Intimacy and How to Make them Work for You
(Online course or DVD seminar)
Do you long for greater intimacy in your marriage? Do you sometimes have trouble
connecting with your mate and can’t figure out why? Do you wish there was a way to
connect and stay connected? In the BUILD LASTING INTIMACY: The Levels of
Intimacy and How to Make them Work for You seminar, I share:
- The Four Levels of Intimacy
- How these levels interact
- How to recognize when you’ve sabotaged
the intimacy in your marriage
- What happens when a level of intimacy
is neglected
- How to identify your strongest levels
of intimacy
- How to use your strengths to shore up your weak areas
You don’t have to live in a stale, distant marriage. Build Lasting Intimacy and enjoy staying connected to your mate.
"Shellie's teaching on how intimacy in marriage works is like none I've heard before. I wish I'd known about this when I married decades ago." --K.H.
INTIMACY BARRIERS: Identify and Conquer Love-Killing Behaviors
(Online course or DVD seminar)
Do you wish you had better control of your reactions in and out of conflict? Do you
wonder why you behave in a way that damages your marriage, but can’t figure
out how to stop? Do you wish you could reach for your mate, let him or her into your
deepest heart but don’t know how? In INTIMACY BARRIERS: Identify and Conquer
Love-Killing Behaviors I will teach you:
- What is an Intimacy Barrier
- What are the four main Intimacy
Barriers
- How to identify an Intimacy Barrier
- How to trace the origination of an
Intimacy Barrier
- How to confront an Intimacy Barrier
- How to eliminate an Intimacy Barrier
Don’t let your marriage suffer from Intimacy Barriers. Equip yourself to change and grow, and reap the benefits everyday.
"I'd never realized how many barrriers to intimacy there were between me and my husband. This teaching
changed how I see my husband and my marriage." --L.C.
RISE to FREEDOM : Be Restored, Be Renewed & Live Whole
(Online course or DVD seminar)
Did someone hurt you? Do painful experiences from your past have a hold on your life
today? Do you suffer inside, still hurting over what happened to you months, years, or
decades ago? Are you frustrated you can’t “get over it,” “move on,” and “leave your
past behind?” RISE to FREEDOM : Be Restored, Be Renewed & Live Whole is the
answer to finally dealing with your real and deepest hurt, and stepping toward your
future with joy and peace. In this extended seminar, I walk you through completing a
healing process specifically tailored to your hurt. I guide you through:
- The jobs of the Holy Spirit
- Working with the Holy Spirit
throughout your emotional healing
- Developing a new perspective of your
past
- Identifying the four parts of you that
need healing
- How the four parts of you interact,
and how to compensate for a weak area
- What giving forgiveness really means and how to really do it (without lying)
- What to do while you’re working through healing
- What to do if the pain hangs on
- What to do if you get stuck on the path to healing
- How to know when you’re healed
- Developing your new identity
Don’t stay bound by past hurts, painful experiences, or trauma. RISE to FREEDOM and live a fulfilled, restored life.
"I was stuck. I knew God was healing me from hurts, but I didn't know what to do next.
Your teaching helped me get unstuck." --Anonymous
