Teaching Seminars are ticketed events of two to three hours in length. These events can be scheduled at your church or other location for groups of ten or more.

 

 

RISE to FREEDOM

 

Have you been hurt by others? Do painful experiences from your past have a hold on your life today? Do you suffer inside, still hurting over what happened to you months, years, or decades ago? Are you frustrated you can’t “get over it,” “move on,” and “leave your past behind?” RISE to FREEDOM  is the answer to finally dealing with your real and deepest hurt, and stepping toward your future with joy and peace. In this extended seminar, I walk you through a complete healing process. I guide you through:

 

*The jobs of the Holy Spirit

*Working with the Holy Spirit throughout your emotional healing

*Developing a new perspective of your past

*Identifying the four parts of you that need healing

*How the four parts of you interact, and how to compensate for a weak area

*What giving forgiveness really means and how to really do it (without lying)

*What to do while you’re working through healing

*What to do if the pain hangs on

*What to do if you get stuck on the path to healing

*How to know when you’re healed

*Developing your new identity

 

Don’t stay bound by past hurts, painful experiences, or trauma. RISE to FREEDOM and live a fulfilled, restored life.

 

 

BREAK the CONFLICT CYCLETurn Every Struggle into a Winning Strategy

 

Would you like to end the conflict in your marriage? Never again have that disagreement—you know the one—or at least know what to do about a particular conflict? Would you like to learn how to enjoy and preserve companionship and intimacy despite conflict? In the BREAK the CONFLICT CYCLE—Turn Every Struggle into a Winning Strategy seminar, you will learn:

 

*What brings conflict

*What’s really happening when conflict comes

*Why conflict can actually benefit your marriage

*How to use conflict to benefit your marriage

*What to do when a particular conflict reoccurs

*How to replace conflict with new habits

 

Your marriage doesn’t have to be dominated or blind-sided by conflict. Break the Conflict Cycle and experience a closer

marriage than ever before.

 

 

 

BUILD LASTING INTIMACYThe Levels of Intimacy and How to Make them Work for You

 

Do you long for greater intimacy in your marriage? Do you sometimes have trouble connecting with your mate and can’t figure out why? Do you wish there was a way to connect and stay connected? In the BUILD LASTING INTIMACY—The Levels of Intimacy and How to Make them Work for You seminar, I share:

 

*The Four Levels of Intimacy

*How these levels interact

*How to recognize when you’ve sabotaged the intimacy in your marriage

*What happens when a level of intimacy is neglected

*How to identify your strongest levels of intimacy

*How to use your strengths to shore up your weak areas

 

You don’t have to live in a stale, distant marriage. Build Lasting Intimacy and enjoy staying connected to your mate.

 

INTIMACY BARRIERS—Identify and Conquer Love-Killing Behaviors

 

Do you wish you had better control of your reactions in and out of conflict? Do you wonder why you behave in a way that damages your marriage, but can’t figure out how to stop? Do you wish you could reach for your mate, but don’t know how to let him or her into your deepest heart? In INTIMACY BARRIERS—Identify and Conquer Love-Killing Behaviors I will teach you:

 

*What is an Intimacy Barrier

*What are the four main Intimacy Barriers

*How to identify an Intimacy Barrier

*How to trace the origination of an Intimacy Barrier

*How to confront an Intimacy Barrier

*How to eliminate an Intimacy Barrier

 

Don’t let your marriage suffer from Intimacy Barriers. Equip yourself to change and grow, and reap the benefits every day.

"I knew God was healing my hurts, but I was stuck in the process. Shellie's seminar helped me get unstuck and move forward in my healing." (Anonymous)

"Shellie's teaching on conflict in marriage opened my eyes to my own motivations and frustrations with my marriage. During a recent argument with my wife, I recognized exactly what was happening and how I could use our disagreement to help our relationship rather than harm it." (J.C.)

"I didn't want to get a divorce, but I thought my marriage was over and I had no other choice. Shellie's insights about building intimacy in marriage helped me see where my beliefs and behaviors were hindering my relationship with my husband. I changed first, which wasn't easy. I truly believe if I hadn't changed, my husband wouldn't have either, and our marriage would not have survived." (J.W.)

"Shellie's teaching on intimacy barriers changed me and my marriage in ways I never dreamed. I realized I was blaming my husband for things I was doing. Shellie taught me to recognize bad habits, how to stop them, and replace them with behaviors that grow my marriage." (Anonymous)